I can hear you now, “But Lori, it doesn’t seem like you have a self-worth or confidence problem.”
And I don’t.
That’s the thing. I’ve worked really hard over the years, developing strategies and rules to help me become the person I want to be. But there’s ALWAYS work to do.
Once you have a strategy and system in place to boost your self-worth and self-confidence, you can use it daily when you find yourself in a situation where the feelings are less than desirable, like when somebody is tearing you down.
As an online health practitioner, coach or fit pro who’s building a brand and growing a business, you know what I mean, right? It’s those haters on social media, or a passive-aggressive/narcissistic family member, or an unsupportive partner — or even the demons in your mind telling you that you are not good enough.
In this episode, I’m going to share with you the actionable strategies I used to bulletproof my self-worth and build up my confidence. A confidence strong enough to show people the unsubscribe button if they don’t like that I swear in my emails, or think that my emails are too long, or I send them too often. I do what’s right for me.
Get out your pen and paper for plenty of note-taking — and you may want to have a few tissues handy, too. This is a super vulnerable episode that left me with a vulnerability hangover and may trigger plenty of emotions in you as you work to define your own Truth and bulletproof your own self-worth and self-confidence.
And when you’re able to see your Truth and ground yourself in it, then the comments, the judgment and the opinions of others don’t have the ability to wreck your self-worth and diminish your confidence (and sometimes they still will because you’re human).
This is one of those episodes where you might want to talk it out with someone. If that’s true, send me a DM on Instagram. I’m @lorikennedyinc.
Listen to Episode 125 below:
What I Talk About In This Episode:
- How I got to a point in my life where if anybody said anything hurtful to me, it stuck with me — and stuck with me deeply and what I’ve done to reverse that
- How I got past decades of conditioning to bulletproof my self-worth and self-confidence.
- The rules and core values I use as guidelines to help me develop into the person I want to be.
- How these rules allow me to do what I call a “self-check-in”, which I use whenever I get into a situation where I’m feeling less than confident.
- What I do to stop comparing myself to others.
- Why there’s no such thing as “balance” in your life — and how you can set priorities instead.
- How to get super intentional with your time and energy, so you can focus on what’s important to you.
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